After Thai food, it's often aspects of nightlife in Thailand that people most talk about. In a culture that is often very receptive and accepting of most things, nightlife in particular can take on an entire new dimension.
If you've never heard of a ladyboy, it won't take long until you do in Thailand. Though it might come as a surprise at first, it's a country where people of all sexes, orientations, and walks of life attend nightclubs and bars in unison.
Prostitution is another major issue of nightlife in Thailand. There are many prostitutes throughout the country that often hang out around tourist concentrated areas of nightlife.
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Thailand Nightlife – How to Party in Thailand
From all night party clubs to relaxing beach bars, Thailand offers a real mixed bag of nightlife. Many locals also choose to just drink bottles of liqueur on the street side wile nibbling on snacks. Others choose to sit outside their front door with a couple buddies and hang out for the night.
When to Go Out
Around popular tourist oriented areas throughout Thailand, every night is a good night to go out. For locals on the other hand, it's mostly Friday and Saturday when they don't have to worry about work the following day.
Many people in Thailand like to enjoy a leisurely dinner, and then sort of merge into the party after eating. There's no real time that it's necessary to start partying, but a good ballpark range is to show up at a club around 10 – 11 pm. For clubs that stay open all night, you can easily show up at 1 – 2 am.
Technically speaking, many bars (that are not in designated areas) are supposed to close their doors by 1 am. Practically speaking, there are countless bars and clubs that remain open all night, until the early morning. Places like Khao San Road in Bangkok seem to have bars and clubs open 24 hours a day to cater to the massive crowds of backpackers.
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What to Wear
Around Thailand it really depends on what city and environment you are in that dictates your dress code. Due to the tropical climate and laid back lifestyle of Thailand, it's normally acceptable to wear shorts and flip flops to bars and tourist clubs. However, if you want to fit in more with locals, they consider it much more polite to wear jeans with shoes or sandals.
There are some prestigious clubs, mostly in Bangkok, that require long pants and closed toe shoes to enter.
Many local Thais go out to party with a group of friends. Partying usually involves a Thai dinner that accompanies either beer or the combination of Thai whiskey and soda water. When going out, it's seldom to be seen going out with parents (like in South America) but mostly with friends of similar age.
There are also a lot of Thai bar girls that hang out amongst themselves at bars and clubs throughout Thailand.
Thailand offers a diversity of Western music throughout the clubs. Many play a mixture of hip hop, house and latest hits. It's usually impolite to dance very close (as in grind), like common in some other parts of the world.
If you are looking for a traditional experience, you'll need to visit a local style karaoke club. Older generation Thais enjoy themselves by drinking liquor, singing karaoke, and slowly dancing to the piercing tunes.
There's a gigantic range and diversity of females in Thailand and it takes a little bit of time to feel out the situation. For starters (as your probably know), there are a lot of prostitutes as well as females that are looking to date or marry white guys for their money. Likewise, there are a lot of men that are just out to have fun (sex-pats).
The good news is, outside of the concentrated nightlife areas, the majority of Thai females are not bar girls and rarely even party. For the more traditional women, it takes time to get to know them, but once you do, they are loyal and protective of you.
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Just like Thai females, there's a real distinctive difference between kinds of Thai men. The more upper class or trendy men tend to hang out at nightclubs, and sometimes venture to foreign concentrated nightlife areas.
Local Thai dudes often hang out in small crews on the side of streets, while racing motorbikes and drinking beer and whiskey. Many of these guys avoid the central tourism industry.
Sex in Thailand
Even with a major Thai sex industry, the majority of Thais live with their parents until they get married. Sex while living under their parents is not considered appropriate for many households, and many father's are very protective of their daughters.
That being said, there are plenty of opportunities to have sex if you want, and if you are a guy you will probably be approached by countless Thai females (if you go out at night). Use your own discretion and take normal precautionary measures. The morning after pill is available at most pharmacies in Thailand. Abortion is illegal unless it will threaten the woman's health.
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