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Home » Destinations » Asia » Indonesia

Scooter-Born Prostitute Rips Me Off

Published: Feb 14, 2008 by Dave Lee |

gang (alley) in Kuta

The Lonely Planet warns readers against prostitutes that ride around on scooters and hassle men walking around alone at night. It specifically warned of one gang (alley), so I made it a point to stay clear of it. At the same time, I had little sense of how this "danger and annoyance" might present itself. Unfortunately, I learned the hard way.

I had found what I thought to be the fastest internet cafe in Kuta, so after being frustrated with slow speeds elsewhere, I decided to spend several hours at it before I left Bali for Lombok the next morning. My accommodation was about a 7-10 minute walk through a few winding gangs. I'd done it several times during the day, and knew where I was going, and how long it'd take.

I left the internet cafe around midnight, and the gang it was on had restaurants so it was still a bit lively. I made my first turn onto the second gang and noticed the shops that had been open earlier were closed, the street was rather empty, and not well lit. I puffed my chest out, and continued to walk at a quick pace trying to look imposing.

A woman on a scooter came up from behind me, and parked it about 15 feet in front of me, in a dark shadowy area. She got off the scooter, and as I walked past her, she grabbed me below the belt, which of course startled the hell out of me. At the same time, she was soliciting me, and I was saying "no, no, no" as I kept walking. She went back to her bike, drove past me again saying "bye, bye" and then stopped another 15 feet ahead of me.

gang (alley) in Kuta

This time, she motioned to a pitch-black alley, and as I walked by, she grabbed my right arm tightly, and went below the belt again. I firmly told her to "get off me" and pushed her away. She got on her bike again, rode past me saying "bye, bye" and this time she kept going.

It wasn't until 2-3 minutes later when I was getting they key to my room out that I realized the 70,000 rupiah (about $8) in my back pocket was gone. My money belt finally showed it's worth, as it contained much more cash, credit cards, and my passport. I was thankful she didn't try to take my backpack which had my camera and mp3 player, however I was angry at the woman for what she did, and myself for being too complacent. Looking back, as you can see from the photos, I had nowhere to go except forwards or backwards, and she surely knew that from past thefts of this nature.

I considered reporting the incident to the tourist police the next day, however after hearing corruption stories about them, and thinking it'd do little good since I couldn't see the woman's face (she was wearing a helmet, besides the fact that it was pitch black), I decided to carry on to Lombok the next morning.

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Dave is the Founder and Editor in Chief of Go Backpacking and Feastio. He's been to 68 countries and lived in Colombia and Peru. Read the full story of how he became a travel blogger.

Comments

  1. Overland Travel says

    February 15, 2008 at 3:15 am

    Sorry to hear that chief. It's a familiar story; I got hassle late from Ladies of the Night on Motorcycles in Hanoi, Vietnam. It's against all your programming to treat a lady firmly, but you really have to. It's also as annoying as hell to be pickpocketed but at least it's a cheap lesson learned - $8 to teach you to keep your money in your wallet which is firmly fixed to your person by keychain or in your moneybelt.

    Just to make you feel better about the loss... I was in a taxi in Bangkok and a Dutch girl I was travelling with paid me back $100 I had let her borrow - it was a single $100 note. I slipped it inside my pocket instead of my wallet... bad move. A minute after leaving the taxi I realised I didn't have it; it had slipped out onto the seat. The last thing I saw was the taxi driver give me a little wave and a big smile as he drove off. :evil:

  2. lissie says

    February 15, 2008 at 10:19 am

    Yup - cheap lesson - odd it always seems to be guys who get pickpocketed - I guess girls are a bit more paranoid - but reall - a BACK pocket!

  3. lissie says

    February 15, 2008 at 5:19 am

    Yup - cheap lesson - odd it always seems to be guys who get pickpocketed - I guess girls are a bit more paranoid - but reall - a BACK pocket!

  4. Stu says

    February 15, 2008 at 1:02 pm

    "Dave dallies with Prossitute in Dark Alley. Learns Life Lesson"

    lol. Ohh so many places to go with this story dave ;) but I'll be kind.

  5. Stu says

    February 15, 2008 at 8:02 am

    "Dave dallies with Prossitute in Dark Alley. Learns Life Lesson"

    lol. Ohh so many places to go with this story dave ;) but I'll be kind.

  6. Overland Travel says

    February 15, 2008 at 8:15 am

    Sorry to hear that chief. It's a familiar story; I got hassle late from Ladies of the Night on Motorcycles in Hanoi, Vietnam. It's against all your programming to treat a lady firmly, but you really have to. It's also as annoying as hell to be pickpocketed but at least it's a cheap lesson learned - $8 to teach you to keep your money in your wallet which is firmly fixed to your person by keychain or in your moneybelt.

    Just to make you feel better about the loss... I was in a taxi in Bangkok and a Dutch girl I was travelling with paid me back $100 I had let her borrow - it was a single $100 note. I slipped it inside my pocket instead of my wallet... bad move. A minute after leaving the taxi I realised I didn't have it; it had slipped out onto the seat. The last thing I saw was the taxi driver give me a little wave and a big smile as he drove off. :evil:

  7. Dan says

    February 15, 2008 at 1:54 pm

    Sorry to hear that, but it's good you had your money belt. Vicki and I had a similar experience with some gypsies in Rome. Good prepartation and a little situational awareness kept them from getting anything.

  8. Dan says

    February 15, 2008 at 8:54 am

    Sorry to hear that, but it's good you had your money belt. Vicki and I had a similar experience with some gypsies in Rome. Good prepartation and a little situational awareness kept them from getting anything.

  9. amanda says

    February 15, 2008 at 11:09 pm

    So sorry to hear about this. Theft is the most unsettling feeling. I bet you are so glad you had your money belt with the bulk in there ! I was robbed a few years ago in daylight ( $80 via distraction .... not violent but still unsettling). I had someone break into my car last summer. These 2 things happened in Salt Lake City , Utah , USA. So ..... stuff like this happens . There is laziness and desparation in the world everywhere .

    Sorry to hear about it ! Happy travels in Lombok. Post Bali Spa reviews for your readers ! ;)

  10. amanda says

    February 15, 2008 at 6:09 pm

    So sorry to hear about this. Theft is the most unsettling feeling. I bet you are so glad you had your money belt with the bulk in there ! I was robbed a few years ago in daylight ( $80 via distraction .... not violent but still unsettling). I had someone break into my car last summer. These 2 things happened in Salt Lake City , Utah , USA. So ..... stuff like this happens . There is laziness and desparation in the world everywhere .

    Sorry to hear about it ! Happy travels in Lombok. Post Bali Spa reviews for your readers ! ;)

  11. Gary says

    February 16, 2008 at 10:38 am

    That sucks. Good thing it was only $8. I don't think the police would have done anything about $8 and the time it would require from you would be over $8.

    I hope you are enjoying Lombok.

  12. Gary says

    February 16, 2008 at 5:38 am

    That sucks. Good thing it was only $8. I don't think the police would have done anything about $8 and the time it would require from you would be over $8.

    I hope you are enjoying Lombok.

  13. Kyle says

    February 16, 2008 at 9:09 am

    That's rough, sorry to hear about it. At least it wasn't much money...although I know it's not the money that gets you, it's the whole feeling violated thing.

  14. Kyle says

    February 16, 2008 at 2:09 pm

    That's rough, sorry to hear about it. At least it wasn't much money...although I know it's not the money that gets you, it's the whole feeling violated thing.

    • Kaylan says

      October 22, 2012 at 5:15 am

      You write so hnosetly about this. Thanks for sharing!

  15. Kango Suz says

    February 17, 2008 at 12:46 am

    Yikes, that sucks. So scary to be molested in that way! I'd have hid in my room for at least a day. Congrats on making it through plus going back to take the daylight photos. Great gonads.

  16. Kango Suz says

    February 17, 2008 at 5:46 am

    Yikes, that sucks. So scary to be molested in that way! I'd have hid in my room for at least a day. Congrats on making it through plus going back to take the daylight photos. Great gonads.

  17. jim says

    February 20, 2008 at 6:56 pm

    Nice Valentines Day present.

    If I had a nickle for everytime a girl grabbed me "below the belt", I would be a rich man. Stay strong.

  18. jim says

    February 20, 2008 at 1:56 pm

    Nice Valentines Day present.

    If I had a nickle for everytime a girl grabbed me "below the belt", I would be a rich man. Stay strong.

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